The New Employment Fraud Games afoot

There is a new fraud game afoot, though it seems this is mostly an old money laundering scheme with a new twist. The twist is that instead of an offer to buy your for sale item with fraudulent funds deposited into your own bank acct and then wire transferred to some obscure party in a third location, the fraud comes as part of a very enticing job offer for something called a Financial Manager.

I Googled an entire paragraph from the contract that was sent to my son, and it came up with exact paragraph matches on several other companies reported to be likely frauds. Because there was not clear information that they are frauds, I am reporting this as a new fraud game.

It works roughly like this, in fact, here is the "Duties" paragraph from the contract, it matches many, many other contracts verbatim, and describes something that most would recognize as money laundering, but to a desperate young person unable to find work, this comes as quite a treat to read this after little or no interview with the company.

"DUTIES:
The Contractor undertakes the responsibility to receive payments from the Clients of the Company to his personal bank account, withdraw cash and to effect payments to the Company's partners by Western Union or MoneyGram money transfer system within one (1) day. He/she will report directly to the senior manager and to any other party designated by the senior manager in connection with the performance of the duties under this Agreement and shall fulfill any other duties reasonably requested by the Company and agreed to by the Contractor."

"TERMS OF ENGAGEMENT:
The Contractor is engaged by the Company on terms of thirty-days (30) probationary period. During the probationary period the Company undertakes to pay to the Contractor the base salary amounting to 2300 USD per month plus 8% commission from each payment processing operation. After the probationary period the Company agrees to revise and raise the base salary to 3000 USD."

"The Company has the right to cancel this Agreement at any time within the probationary period or refuse to extend it after that, should the Contractor refuses to fulfill his/her obligations under this Agreement or fulfills them not in good faith."

"The Contractor has the right to terminate the Agreement at any time on condition that he/she has processed all previous payments and has no new instructions."

The website for this company has the earmarks of a fraudulently created laundering internet site, they call themselves, The Hub Group, which is a legit company, at the site http://hubgroup.com/ which has been registered since 1996 at that site.

Registrant:
Hub Group, Inc.
3050 Highland Parkway
Suite 100
Downers Grove, IL 60515
US

Domain Name: HUBGROUP.COM

Record expires on 05-Jun-2010.
Record created on 06-Jun-1996.
Database last updated on 12-Jun-2009 15:24:39 EDT.

HTTP://hub-groupmain.cn is a look-alike

However, the web domain in all the emails has a slight twist that might not be picked up, but is a dead giveaway that it is likely a fraud web site.

http://hub-groupmain.cn is what was in all the emails sent to my son, the .cn being a Chinese domain, which has been made to look similar to the regular domain of the legit company, and upon brief perusal, looks like the same web page as the legit company.

A Whois check of that domain produces the following info.

Domain Name: hub-groupmain.cn
ROID: 20090506s10001s02390171-cn
Domain Status: clientTransferProhibited
Registrant Organization: Private Person
Registrant Name: Gillermo Valdez
Administrative Email:
Sponsoring Registrar: 广东时代互联科技有限公司
Name Server:ns1.bubble-preorder.info
Name Server:ns2.bubblepreorder.net
Registration Date: 2009-05-06 00:38
Expiration Date: 2010-05-06 00:38

So this domain has only been registered since 06 May of this year, 2009, and all the pages on the web site are pictures of articles lifted from other websites, and none of the text is selectable to google it, as all the pages are basically snapshots, rather than text as in most other websites.

The list of pages that have the same fraudulent job listed is growing and includes the following, so please be watchful for the following also:

"BBM Group Inc. scam. This is just the latest of the numerous highly generic Russian scam websites that has been set up to form a front for a money laundering fraud job advertisement. (The identical job was posted by the Calisto Trading Inc., Reynolds Investment, & Simple Investments fraudsters and others)."

"It's a bit slicker than most but at the end of the day its function is to con you into believing that they are a legitimate company when the evidence clearly demonstrates that they are crooks. It's an identical scam to Epayment Solutions, Emarket Solutions Inc., Legal Operations Inc., Secure Operations Inc., Oranta Group Inc., Ketler Group Inc., Profit Financing Inc., Logic Group Inc., Maxi Group Inc., Fair Group, Fartex Group, MGPA Group Inc., Sky Group Inc., Idea Group Inc., Air Group Inc., Ideal Group Inc., Capital Group Inc., Fox Group Inc., Ebusiness Group Inc., Onicks Group Inc., Multi Group Inc., Single Group, DDK Group Inc., EFS Capital Group Inc., Eagle Group Inc. FCB Group Inc., TDK Group Inc., and the Ecos Group Inc. fraudsters among others."

"This fraud website has been produced in several languages. The website carries a clear money mule solicitation, their multiple domains were only registered very recently and all their contact and location details are bogus."
(This information was gleaned from http://www.bobbear.co.uk/bbm-group-inc.html)

Here's That Time Our Math Teacher Told Us About...

When math could very well save our lives. Funny, I never thought it could happen like this. Being able to "Do The Math" could in some cases, be the very thing that helps us either recognize the inherent limitations in something, or conversely, its enormous potential; and yet so many people who went to school, fail to do exactly that, when it comes to deciding their next moves.

Case in point: eFusjon is quite possibly the start of a new boom, the likes of which we have only dreamed about in the past, with a Healthy Energy Drink that aptly and amply competes against every drink in its class, and a marketing plan that takes all the best features of every successful multi-level marketing plan in the past, and molds them into a streamlined version of the best of them, and injects them with enough "mojo" to make it, by the numbers, the best way to move a product quickly into the mainstream that I have ever seen, and I have seen lots of them.

Whew, and that said, it somewhat pains me to say that an older generation of potential marketers has been so stymied by all the programs of the past decades that didn't quite work, that so many question the numbers as just another pie-in-the-sky program that will only be good for a few people. True it is that the sooner you get into something like this the better it will be, but that is exactly the point here, it is very early in the game, and I still meet with doubtful resistance. What is UP with that?!? This is like having found a gold mine in the forest behind the neighborhood and my neighbors are telling me, "but I don't have a shovel." Well lets go buy one, you won't have to dig long before the shovel is paid for!

I am seeing that for the most part, it will be a younger generation that has not gotten it in their heads yet that working in an office will be the best or only way to spend their daily existence, that might actually consider doing this, but it still hurts that there are so many people hurting from this recession that could use the money that this will redirect from the $$ Billions $$ that are being swallowed down in the Energy Drink industry without a second thought, mostly in drinks that are just flat not healthy for the body, and here comes one that finally is.

Mark my words, this one is the one that will make a difference in the lives of so many people that I talk to, and I want to leave a milestone marker, literally 2 weeks into my time in this new opportunity, with 4 people in, I got my personal three and placed one new person under my first lady, and will help each of the people that works with me, to build their businesses, and I am predicting now, that I will never have to go back to a job again. Oh, and I guess I should mention, my last job ended Mar 31st, and I have not been able to find any work in my Tech Writing field, so I began looking for other ways to develop streams of income, in the absence of the standard ways, and I will ever be grateful to Wendy Cowles who showed me the numbers on this one. Check it out, you will be amazed as I was, and possibly will decide that the math works on this one.

https://www.myefusjon.com/infohwyman

Do the Math!

The New Economy is a Global One

To say that things will never be the same could very well be the understatement of the new millenium as we forge ahead in this new global economy. The internet has forever changed the way we all connect, and as a result, we can never again simply rely on our local economies for comfort or relief. But that is also a good thing, and I, for one, am excited for this prospect.

It used to be a given that if one wanted to set up a small business for their community, they had to at least have a service that was somewhat perennial in demand, and that the competition was minimal enough such that they could command a fairly steady income from their local pool of customers.

With the advent of the internet, the prospects for who are your local market and who might have need and use of your services are blown wide open and the possibilities are endless. Even competition is a different game, as the loyalty factor is wide open for grabs, and people will move around from vendor to vendor depending upon such factors as price, color choice of the website, ease of transacting business, referral by a friend, or a hundred other factors.

This means that imagination now plays an ever bigger role in the success of the small business owner, and yet it also evens the playing field, because try as they might, the conglomerates and big corporations now have no advantage and no threat factor to scare off or push out the little guys. The playing field is more level than it has been ever in the history of the world, and while fear still keeps many from joining the game, I have seen more young people than in my whole lifetime prior, diving into the small business game, now that the internet makes it something just about anybody can do.

I too have been forced into a corner with the IT job market drying up. I just ran into a friend the other day who is moving to Utah in a week because that is where he could find a job. I was faced with having to either start a much lower paying job by lowering my scope of what I am willing to do, or start selling my experience in my field over the internet. I have discovered by looking at eLance.com for example that many of the jobs have moved from W2 contract types to the free floating 1099 type, probably because in the long run, there is less idle time for companies to pay for, in between work assignments.

It is high time that we in America caught on to the fact that the world is changing, and that we cannot afford the time or energy that so many people devote to trying to hang on to out-dated jobs and industries and start finding out what this new world needs done and either learn to do it, or do what we do well in a different and better way that fills current needs. The Obama Administration will bring with it much change as is already so evident in so many ways, and so we must look around at the kinds of things that will change and try to see the new work that will rise from those changes. So many of us will simply train for a new job, and that is fine.

I am using this time of change to finally make the needed transition I have so long avoided to join the ranks of the self-employed and business owners. Robert Kiyosaki points out with his cashflow quadrants that until you are either a business owner or an investor, you will always work for your money, but once you master the B and I side of the equation, your money will be working for you. That is how I intend to spend the next 50 years of my life. Join me.

Watch out for Trickle Debt

I have been wary of the new trend that is all to easy to get sucked into, which is to take on a free trial period of something and then lose track of when to cancel, or even the number to cancel it. All too often we get ourselves bogged down if we allow too many of these free trials to get started, without paying attention or noting how or when to cancel them if we find as I all too often do, that I really have not used the service as I thought I would when I initially started it.

This by the way, is what they count on when they start you up this way. Most people do not end up using the services on a repetitive basis as planned originally, but the money coming out on a monthly basis is usually in these cases kept to an amount less than $20 a month, so that in most cases we do not even see it coming out each month, or it hurts so little we do nothing about it.

I recently began to take stock of the number of such transactions I have coming out on a monthly basis and found that I currently have four services that protect me from identity theft, three magazines coming each month that I hardly ever read, and five transactions on my bank statement that I had to call to find out what they were; all under $20 a month but which each month add up to a sizable amount. It's okay if I am using the services, but I and all of us, need to be more mindful of the games companies play to get us started on a slow but steady drain of money from our accounts in almost unnoticeable amounts.

These are times where we should simply be more aware of where our money is coming from and where it is going.

My Rules for Twitter Following

I have developed the following loose rule-set for who to Follow in Twitter:

If a follower is a business, or marketer, I will follow-back only if I am interested in their tweets, or product, hardly ever, if there are only self-serving tweets in the first 5 or 6 tweets. I care not at this point if they continue to follow me.

If a follower is an individual, I will follow back, as my way of saying thank you, if after reading their bio and tweets, I find they are sincerely interested in meeting and interacting with new people in a calm, adult and friendly manner. I send out periodic group thank you's now for new followers.

If a follower is someone I am very impressed with, either by bio, tweets, or type of friends and conversation, (never simply by number of followers) I will follow back and make a personal comment publicly, thanking them for the follow, and maybe how I hope to interact with them.

I have stopped worrying about who quits following me, or why, as I only want people following me who are interested in my comments, and me, to whatever extent they may benefit from me, even as a customer. I want to network not only with people who have a lot in common with me, but with people who reasonably challenge my thoughts or ideas, and who are still reasonably positive about life.

I almost never follow people who show a tendency to engage in arguments with others or use rude or abusive language to get their points across, no matter how much I feel they might ultimately benefit by an exchange with me. I will not block them, however, unless they prove to be pushy as well as abusive.

I will outright block anybody who is obviously spamming, using adult or provocative images for their avatar or links to adult websites, or slanderous websites of any kind. Blocking should not be abused, and should be considered also a signal to Twitter to check this person out for possible abuse.

Twitter Opens Up a New World Online

While Twitter is likely to be around for a while, it takes some getting used to, mostly as its most visible features, Following, and Followers start to go from a few at the start, to a few hundred, and you find yourself unable to manually track what used to be fun and easy. The biggest and most profound change for me was as I approached my first 100 followers, and started to notice that my iPhone was getting inundated with SMS messages coming in, to the point where I had to shut off the phone's notification feature of vibration and tones, to let me know I was getting yet another SMS.

The first inconvenience was that I started missing family member text messages, because my phone was silently receiving them along with literally hundreds of messages a day. I started to think that the obvious solution was to turn off mobile notifications from all but the most important Followings, in terms of my interest in their comments.

I couldn't decide, and so I resorted to the plethora of tools available for my iPhone, and tested several before landing on one or two (*Twitterfon and Twittelator) that allowed me, without using Twitter's Mobile device feature, to not only log into my Twitter acct with my iPhone and read friends' comments, but then reply with a click.

I could, with one tool, track any "Tweets" that contained my username, infohwyman. This allowed me to be as responsive as I had always been to those who were either commenting directly to me, or replying to one of my earlier tweets, or even, as I discovered, saying something nice about me to another. It also allowed me to use my iPhone whenever I was ready to look at and catch up with the tweets that interested me and not be constantly bombarded with a steady stream of tweets, at times useless or pointless, and sometimes just not pertinent to me or my needs.

I have already heard of people getting exasperated and giving up on the whole deal, and I imagine to some extent it would be for some of the same frustrations I had felt, before I took action and found a way to allow this very useful and fun tool to continue to connect me to a world of thoughts and ideas, the likes of which have never come to me with such rapidity, nor usefulness as they do now.

There are so many positive uses that Twitter offers the adept and conscientious user, that I will save the ideas for a later post, but suffice to say now with utter conviction, Twitter has caught me in its net, and I am bound to it now, by the growing number of interesting people who have already made me feel very much at home, and many of which have already told me that I have made a measurable difference in their day with something I said. That is why I am here, and it is where I am heading.

* I am using a jailbroken iPhone, on TMobile's network, so apps available to me are actually not exactly the same as the Applestore apps, so I won't at this point make recommendations for iPhone apps to use, but Google and check around, there are already many reviews that led me to where I am happy now.

Is Monogamy Really A Selfish Form of Marriage? Answer to the Pavlinas Polyamory Argument

I have been married to my wife for nineteen years and we have felt lots of sexual tension, not to mention emotional extremes, but because we are both committed to the marriage and to each other, we have had no other choice than to work it out.

Frankly, I have always been a "live and let live" sort of guy, but to hear Steve and Erin Pavlina state that monogamy is actually a selfish form of marriage, because each partner acts as though they own the other is to denounce monogamy for its most failed manifestation, the marriage entered into for selfish needs or by two people who have no desire to stretch and grow. My wife and I meet each others needs, not because we are slaves to the other or owned by one another, but because we have, of our own free will, given ourselves to each other, and desire to make this life and forever together, a wonderful experience for the companionship of each other.

There are incompatibilities in any marriage, and the answer most assuredly is not for me to go find someone else who meets this or that need that my wife just won't. A lot of times, not doing so causes me to figure out what I want more, or whether or not this need is in fact a need. Most of the times, we should not go fulfill every deviant want that we can imagine is really a need.

I still feel that the Pavlinas deserve whatever kind of marriage they want, and I must also say that when they describe polyamory as a way of building a stronger marriage because both partners are happiest in this form of marriage relationship, I have to say, in my humble opinion, that no happiness garnered from experiences outside of a loving devoted companionship, could ever be greater than that experienced by two people who have learned and loved together, and decided that each other's needs are more important than a moment or two of pleasure that they might find elsewhere.

My marriage to my wife will last beyond the life we are living now, because we have raised children together, struggled together, fought side by side against a common enemy, and fought with each other about what was important to each of us. To live a life where we go and satisfy every desire when we have it and always meet every need the moment our partner does not, is to live a highly undisciplined existence which in the end, does not build strength of character or a strong love bond between two people.

I personally cannot see how polyamory could be described as a proper way to build a strong bond of trust between two people, because even if we are to shed all our selfishness, and envy, which is and should be the goal even in monogamy, the entwining of two lives is not as the Pavlinas describe, a shaky foundation of pillars so close that the structure tumbles, but is the divine multiplication of the gifts each individual brings to the marriage that strengthens the two as they become one flesh, a scriptural principle worth noting and as it is exemplified in my own life, with my own wife, and yes she is mine, and I am hers. Not at all selfishly, and yet, in a way that causes me to love her as I love myself. But I have to love myself enough to appreciate her.

To me, polyamory is not and could not be described as less selfish than monogamy, when both are lived to their highest forms. Monogamy does not mean to me that I cannot have emotional bonds with other women, nor my wife with other men, but the danger in living a life based upon excusing myself from even trying to meet my partner's needs that are uncomfortable to me is that it becomes a lazy way of loving and soon enough, one or the other will find someone else who meets more needs, better; then what?!?

Another Poem from Random Words

to Dragonblogger, I could really get to like this, for one, it is a brain wrangler and a half, to take a finite set of words and make a poem work. I did the following with the 9 words you got today, though I took a bit more than 90 seconds. For some reason, mine still need some sort of rhyming meter to work for me, tell me what you think.

Wasteful Earth Hater

They try so hard to make me cave
to think the octopus is my brother
they sell it all with marketable fear
but the information makes me smother

This environment is not some precious prize
that I must preserve for another
I trust in me and my own demand
my faith is in me, so why bother

Then another says with a louder voice
when they bury you, like so much fodder
then the sprinkles of dirt that you never cared for
will become a landslide, from your mother


The nine words were:
@summerbreeze80 (octopus),
@azredneck (demand),
@grumpy79 (faith),
@IntegralChaotic (landslide),
@mebanded (marketable),
@infohwyman (environment),
@SJohnson85 (sprinkles),
@SurfCityJay (information),
@stevebelt (precious)

Trying my hand at composing poetry from random words

The poem I am creating today is created using random words sent to DragonBlogger, a Twitter friend, with which he created a poem also.

Thanks to the following people for submitting their words: @SurfCityJay (love), @grumpy79 (euphoria), @izealove (sycophant), @summerbreeze80 (desperation), @WebBetty (fastidious), @SonoranDragon (spizzerinctum), @infohwyman (triumph)

Here is mine poem with the 7 words.

Love to so many is a noun
something that just miraculously arrives,
the euphoria of the brush of one found,
from the desperation of our lonely lives

yet to others the secret is bared,
ne'er the sycophant gains all that's sweet
for in the moment of triumph, alls fair
none can gain such a prize with a cheat

for the heart of another's not booty
to be taken fastidious -ly
wi' spizzerinctum thou doest thy duty
it will come by and by, thou shall see

This is posted on my blog so I can send him a link to check this out on twitter.

His poem for today can be found at http://www.wandererthoughts.com/2009/01/random-twitter-poem-for-january-5th/

Thanks again for the inspiration, I have several blogs that have been utterly neglected during the holidays.

2009 will find me more dedicated to these and more.

My Latest Contract Has a Nice View

This is the view from the conference room that I share with four developers working with me to make hopefully a big enough impression that they extend our contract for another year.

Otherwise George Bush and I will be looking for work in the worst economic conditions we have seen in decades. For one thing, I had to laugh when the big headline today was "Recession declared to have started in December 2007". Oh really?!?

They must have been waiting for the historical evidence, because most of us have known we were in one for that whole year.Still, I remain calm regarding my options, as I feel I will fare far better than in 2001-2003.

The Speed of Thought? Almost

Bill Gates made a prediction that it would not be long before the internet gave us real time results for our thoughts.

I have to say he is mostly correct, and I have daily evidences of that.

Someone in the next seat over talking to someone about that one movie where so and so was the lead role with whats-his-name and they were being chased all over by this underground organization, and, wow, it's on the tip of my tongue, and within that amount of time, I can usually say, that was The Net, with Sandra Bullock and Dennis Miller, Yeah, that's it, and I did that on my iPhone.

The thing is it happens all the time, what does a rugby ball look like, what is ataraxia, what state has the largest football stadium, all kinds of stuff, and much of it downright trivial in nature.

So why my excitement tonight? Well, tonight I got a call from a young lady I have not talked to in over 25 years, Chrissy, and I am telling you, it was like we were kids on the phone again, just out of high school, never had we met except through letters and an occasional phone call, and then, life happened, and we stopped talking. That was then.

One recent evening I was going over some memories in my mind, and her name popped up so I typed into Google, her name just as I remembered it, and the first three hits were Reunion.com (shameless plug). While at first I was excited to find that I could see some of the details about her that I recognized were probably her, no contact info was available unless I signed up for three months minimum.

So i did, and got her phone number and called her, yep, her message still sounded like her, wow, she had her old name back. What's she been up to? So I left her a message with a few key moments described that I figured would jog her memory if it really was her and would not mean a thing if not, and left my cell phone number.

The next day, right at the end of a perfect day, I was driving home from a run to the store, and she called me and we talked for an hour, and reminisced, and I laughed as I thought about how, tonight we were reunited after more than 25 years, and it took Googling her name, and paying a small price to access a reunion service, and she was now on the phone with me. If that isn't speed of thought, it almost is, and is darn well close enough for most of us.

The Marvel of Modern Technology

I have long said that we would not truly be in the Information Age until we no longer printed to hard copy before something we received digitally was usable to us. Basically, we have arrived and I still print things, and am truly at times amazed at the marvelous things these Printer/Scanner/Fax machines can do. I mean, who thought faxes would even hang on this long, they are like the 8 track tape players in a sea of CDs.

But today I was emailed some UPS shipping labels to print out and put on some boxes to be picked up in a few days and I was again amazed at the intricate detail that this printer can produce on a piece of paper passing under this whirring box with some cartridges attached to it.

Seriously, when I looked at the printout, I was again amazed at a technology that I have taken altogether too much for granted. Still more amazing is the fact that there is a gun that can read that UPC code and get so much information that has already been duplicated and stored at another location so that the data can be compared and tracked at the right points, without having to write anything down.

So here again, Wow, after all these years, a little contemplation of modern technology still leaves me amazed and awed.

So Much Reality Might Not Be Good

Reality TV has made itself onto the web, to the extent that individuals with little or no film experience, put whatever their minds can conceive on the web, at places like You Tube and FaceBook, and many others.

I have noticed a lot of the content has no restraint, no moral limits, and represents to a great extent the very base and animal natures that are finding new expression in the upcoming generation as well as those who have merely found a freer place to bare their minds. There is plenty of good in the world, and I refuse to take too dim a view of this phenomenon, except to say that we still have an obligation as individuals to decide what is real, and what is garbage. Remember the old computer construct, GIGO, Garbage In, Garbage Out, is as true today as ever.

Those who allow media outlets to report what the world is like are often the ones who tend to blame their surroundings and consequences for the way they feel, act, even live. If you allow your life to be a reaction to life around you, then you will find yourself sinking deeper as the world around you does so.

Rise up, create your life, and decide each moment what your reality will be, and you will find a new and wonderful world of excitement manifesting itself to you. And you will be the master of your own destiny.

Technology Provides the Means for Constant Education

As I sit quietly somewhere, about to be content doing nothing, while waiting, I suddenly realize I have a book I am reading in my iPhone, using eReader.  I am currently reading the Science of Getting Rich by Wallace Wattles, but have downloaded many recent Business Best Sellers and have a traveling library that hardly takes any space away from my vast music collection and podcasts of recent talk shows and radio shows that I was unable to listen to while working.

 

All in all, there is very little my little iPhone cannot allow me to catch up on, with its 8Gb of space.  I am simply never without something to listen to or catch up on while I am traveling, on a bus, sitting in a waiting room, or waiting for a seat in a restaurant.  Of course if there is a human companion nearby, I still show respect to them and make conversation, unlike many of my teenage counterparts who can literally be standing in a crowd together and not one paying attention to another in their group, but each engaged in a conversation or concert in their own world.

 

I have never forgotten and will never forget that the primary purpose of these gadgets is to improve communications, and make our connections with others less disjointed, not more.

 

I have to appreciate the wonders of technology, but I still find myself amazed at the abuses.  It certainly does bring a whole world of media to the very one foot square that each person occupies making it unimportant now whether we be in proximity of a TV or a radio as to whether news and media can reach us, or whether we can buy the latest book on the bestseller list.

 

The other day I was lost trying to find an address I had neglected to google beforehand, so I pulled over and googled it right there on my phone, and it gave me not only the map, but allowed me to see the satellite view of the area, and zoom to within 1000 ft of the roof, seeing exactly which entrances pertained to my desired destination.

 

Wow, I am still amazed, for as far as we have come, how much farther we can still go from here.
 
James Williams
infohwyman.blogspot.com
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One of MY Dearest Friends Reminded Me

In response to my latest post previous to this one, a dear friend whom I have repeatedly mentioned in my writings, Lennox Morey, reminded me that while this might be a major re-dedication of my life, each day, week, and month we must re-dedicate ourselves to that which is most important.

 

It is true and I hope to have him post his comments more than just reply, because I have truly at times of my life, steered my boat by the currents of his wisdom.  He is a hard man to understand, unless you are willing to suspend normal modes of thinking and stop doing anything but listen while he talks.

 

He has been called crazy by so many, but I call him often for inspiration, and hang at times on his every word.

 

He has taught me most importantly, that to be a great leader, I must know who I am following, and not worry or look behind.

 

This past weekend was a weekend of re-dedications, as my lovely wife and I worked to paint our family room and marshall what kids would help, to get the job done before the weekend had ended.

 

Saturday night, Holly and I took a few hours and re-dedicated ourselves to each other, and had a forever memorable moment as we shared thoughts for the future, and our vision of how things will be in the next year.

 

And so I sit on a Monday morning preparing to join a call, and basking in the glow of a huge weekend of re-dedication, and knowing that I cannot fail, and that whatever the circumstances around me, I still create my life how it will be, with my choices and my focus.

 

Most of all, I re-dedicated my life to my Savior, Jesus Christ, and had a wonderful experience listening to our Church General Conference and the myriad of topics covered.

Re-Dedicating My Life

It seems clear to me that there is nothing more important we can do for our life's work than to find something we love doing, something that moves us all by itself, and doing that until we are the best we can be at it. Not compared to everybody else, but compared to all the other things we could be doing with our time. As one man once said, "What e'er thou art, act well thy part." Be the best YOU, that you can be, and that only happens when we stop living on the whims of others and start responding to the call of our hearts, and, as Stephen R. Covey says, "Find our Voices".

The truth of the matter is that some never do, find their voice. So many die with their music still in them. So many never rise above the proverbial "lives of quiet desperation."

What would it be like to not have to awake with an alarm clock, like that morning we were off to Disneyland for the first time.

We live in an abundant world, and we certainly, here in America, have no shortage of the tools God has provided all of us, to live lives of abundance.

Why do so many, in such a land of opportunity lead lives of quiet desperation.

It is our base nature to be selfish, and to seek first and foremost for that which is momentarily pleasing.

Do we have a choice whether or not to live such shallow lives? Certainly we do have a choice, but so many of us fail to find a reason strong enough to motivate us to make the right choice. It is not that we do not want "true joy." It is that so many simply do not see the value in finding something to move us to rise above pleasing the senses, to that joy that can only be felt by a life lived to God's full desire for us.

Can we find the motivation on our own? I don't think so. I think we must seek to feel God's plan for us, to feel about ourselves the way he must feel, if that is possible.

To see things as he sees them. Can we do that by ourselves? No, but he grants to each man and woman, as much of a glimpse as that man or woman is ready to see, and so the challenge; the primary challenge, is to cleanse the channel between us and Him. To make the communication between us and Him so clean and clear, and feel the gratitude for all He has given us, that we can truly acknowledge his hand in all things.

Then can we begin to see things all around us that have been there all the time, but that we never noticed, or whose import we never realized.

I am awakening to a new phase of my life, and the possibilities are limitless.

While America Was Dreaming

Well, here we sit on the brink of the largest possible financial disaster in World History, and we all saw it coming a year or more ago, but while some were saying we are in a recession but doing nothing, others were saying, "the fundamentals of our economy are as sound as ever."

The problem we now have is that many leaders are lining up, happy to try their hand at saving us from this awful mess they have gotten us into, using exactly the same tricks that brought down Enron and other huge corporations.  By claiming that deregulation equals less government interference, they set us up with what feels like the "Free Market Capitalism" we all thought we were living in, all the while, allowing unchecked greed to take its course on weaker players and unaware consumers.  (Enron is a good example of this with massive power shut downs in California because of price gaming by some speculators and traders, affecting millions of people's lives while a few played God.)

When the damage has been done, and the major players that know better have ditched and taken their booty with them, the government then swoops in and says they will save us, but we are all going to have to tighten our purse strings for a few years and there may be a lot of people losing their retirements, but we can't bail out all the little people, because if the big guys fall, we all fall.  So we are going to have to prop up the big guys and you all are going to be okay eventually.  Because of the prior deregulation, what was morally wrong, has not been legally wrong, so those responsible, are guilty only of guessing wrong and losing millions of other people's money while protected from personal responsibility, going down in infamy, to have to spend the rest of their wretched lives consulting, or worse, retiring in some other part of the world with the booty.

Here we go again.  Hurry up and pass this well-thought, carefully constructed 3 page, $700 Billion dollar proposal that gives emperor like decision power over who lives and who dies, company-wise.  The game gets more wild as both sides wrangle to win support, and Bush looks more pathetic than ever with his laymen terms lesson of how all this nucular economics thing works and why this "sitiation" has all of a sudden become so dire there is no way we can just hope it away any more, like we did the whole last 8 years.

What can we do?  Does this now set up our President, 4 months before leaving office, to put into place some huge sweeping reform, an Executive Order maybe, worse than the Twin Towers justification for Homeland Security, wiretapping, the torture and killing of innocent people, and the like?

We can only wait in suspense.  What else is there at this point?

Tick Tock.

Arizona Might Be Hot, But After A Monsoon...

After a summer monsoon in Arizona, there is hardly a sight more worth seeing than an Arizona sunset.

I often ponder where else I want to live, and now that the Global economy is opening up and my world is less geographically dependent, Arizona summers always get me thinking what a big world I really live in.

But now that I can capture these on a fairly frequent basis with my iPhone, I have been getting some really beautiful ones.

It certainly gives one pause, and always takes my breath away. To me, there is no more sure testimony that I am part of a larger plan, and am touched daily by my creator, and my Father.

Some Things You Still Cannot Do on the Web

I woke up late to go to the gym to work-out this morning, so instead, I went for a walk around the neighborhood, something I typically used to do only at night, but here I was in the cool morning after a nice Arizona rain last night, and it was still cool.

The first thing I noticed is that freshness that everything has when it is still wet from rain, not that it is the first time I have noticed it, but as with anything, when we change the way we look at things, the things we look at change.

I have been doing a lot of changing and my awareness of the world around me is heightened. As much time as I spend on the web, I try to never lose track of the fact that everything I do for money, is for the sole purpose of being able to spend more time in the places of the world that I want to be with my sweetheart, Holly, and my wonderful kids and grandkids.

There is no way I can see that we will ever be able to exercise on the web, but even if someday someone discovers a way, I don't think I will ever trade away one such simple pleasure of life.

When the Student is Ready...

I have heard and thought I understood the oft repeated phrase, "When the student is ready, the teacher will appear."

 

Today, I understood that on a new and entirely more meaningful level, because of an interview I heard with Dan Millman, the author of "The Way of the Peaceful Warrior."

 

He said that so many of us think of this in the way that when we are finally ready to listen, and learn, we will have some master or wise teacher come along and take us under their wing, and teach us.

 

Dan said this is not the sense we should understand this, and it takes away from the truth of the phrase.

 

According to Dan, and I totally see his point, it can be simply enough read, "When we begin to listen, those things that have lessons for us, will finally get through to us, to teach us, and thus the teacher appears."  In that sense, the teacher is always there, and when we change our thinking, raise our eyes from their downward gaze, we see what has been waiting to teach us, and we finally hear, and to the extent we are indeed ready, to understand.

 

This is really how I understand the Law of Attraction, and the Law of Vibration, which many see as the basis of the Law of Attraction.

 

When you are on a certain frequency, you feel and see those things that vibrate on that frequency.  As you elevate or change your vibration, you come into sympathetic vibration with other things and you become aware of things that, while always there, have not been evident to you while vibrating at a different frequency, much like changing the TV channel.  Those signals were all in the room with us, but as we change the channel, we see those things that we could not, at a different frequency.

 

Seems simple, yet some never get it, or at least they never get the relevance in their own lives, of the need to elevate their own frequencies.

 

I have so much more to find, but at least I am finally searching, a willing student, yes, and learning still.